Take photos with your pet, not just of them

Record everyday sounds—barking, snoring, purring, eating

Film mundane routines like walks, naps, or feeding time

Capture slow-motion videos of their unique quirks or expressions

Make a memory book or photo album (physical or digital)

Plan a “bucket list” day or weekend with their favorite things

Take them to their favorite places—parks, beaches, trails

Let them ride in the car with the windows down

Give them their favorite treats (even “forbidden” ones like nuggets, cake, or ice cream)

Host a goodbye gathering with loved ones (human and animal)

Get a paw print or nose print (ink, clay, or digital scan)

Save a lock of fur—store it in a vial, frame, or jewelry

Take professional photos, ideally at home or in nature

Print meaningful photos so you don’t have to scroll through later

Consider a custom art piece or ornament

Write letters to them or from them

Tell them how much they’ve meant to you

Let them know it’s okay to go

Create a special ritual for goodbye (candles, music, prayers)

Make a memorial space with photos, collars, toys, or ashes

Take time off work if you can

Soak in the cuddles, even if they weren’t normally cuddly

Let them move slowly on walks, sniff everything, and take their time

Hold them through the end if possible

Advocate for your timeline—don’t let others rush the process

Consider in-home euthanasia for a peaceful goodbye

Schedule in advance if possible—before it becomes urgent

Let other pets and family members say goodbye

Decide in advance what you want (cremation, ashes, memorials)

Be kind to yourself—grief has no rulebook